For the paths:
Here, I did notice that we need a \\render\blocks… link instead of a n:\render\blocks
each time we do use the dirve w/ the letter, we have some missing maps and other bad stuff happening. (only with DR, the standard path with backburner works just fine)
as for the shutting down thing how long did you wait. it doesnt shut down immediately. but it does shut down. just wait a little bit. i use local drive lettering on everything, textures, proxies, etc etc. i just type f:/3d_database/maps/etc and it works flawlessly thanks to the way i have my stuff setup. so anyone on any computer can use f:/3d_etc etc and find the files on the main harddrive
The vrayspawner is not supposed to shut down after you complete a DR rendering. It must remain open, along with the opened 3dsmax in server mode, so that it can pick up DR requests.