If I can chime in here - the last major project I did, I decided to go with RT all the way - and specifically bumped up my 2 x 1080 ti’s to 4 x 1080 ti’s just for this one project.
I found I needed to do a *lot* of tweaking of materials to finally get RT to render without crashing, but once I did get all those out of the way, the speed improvements were *definitely* breathtaking.
Not only that, but I love the visual interactivity RT and GPU rendering affords.
So, for this project I mention - my 4 x 1080ti’s were churning out renders in 6 minutes in RT (4 x GPUs).
Once the project was delivered and I had time to see how long CPU Adv rendering would have taken, I found my no-slouch 5960x would render that same scene, same noise thresholds etc in 26 minutes…
6mins vs 26 mins is what I found.
I reckon your Dual Xeon is about twice as fast as my 5960x (by memory as my work last year had those Xeons) - yet you only have ONE 1080 ti.
Answer… you need more 1080 ti’s my friend.
PS - I often read that RT doesn’t support this or that, but I have to say, that in my case, those unsupported features aren’t deal-breakers (I don’t need them anyway) - so for me RT is a very worthy render engine that is going to be my default go-to renderer as much as possible.
NOTE - RT is a different render engine, so you *will* get different results coming out of the box and those results may or may not be to your liking - for my clients, who loved what I did, I know they aren’t really interested in the details we can see (and they can’t or aren’t bothered with).
PPS - I also found that CPU & GPU wasn’t faster, but slower and I was told that my CPU isn’t a good match for the performance of my GPU’s - that doesn’t make sense to me, because from my simplistic point of view, I was of the belief that the “more hands to the pump” the better…