vray doesn't stay loaded when reopening maya every time

every time i reopen maya i have to enable it in the plug in manager every time just recently though and this started coming up don’t know if its vray or maya?

i keep getting this error pop up message when i try to start modelling put in a shape then assign a vray material to it then it pops up, i thought restart the mac that didn’t work, deleting prefs that didn’t work, reinstalled maya and vray that didn’t work, autosave is off???

UPDATE! i don’t its vray i went into top down view and went to insert an image for reference and the same pop up window message came up then crashed???

It’s a Maya message.